They always say that the best kind of connection happens organically, almost without any prompting. It should feel like pieces falling into place. But this isn’t to say that you don’t need a bit of help every once in a while, right ladies? Attracting any man is almost like an art form. There are even more things to master when you’re looking to get the attention of a Gemini man. Want to find out if you have what it takes to handle the Twins? Read on to learn everything you need to know about attracting a Gemini man.
The Gemini Man’s Personality
If you only have three words to describe this mutable air sign, it should be charming, curious, and intelligent. People born under this zodiac sign are naturally adventurous not because they want to chase the rush (like fire signs) but because they aim to quench their curiosity. This inquisitiveness also translates into how they relate to people. Since Mercury rules them, the planet representing communication is often the most approachable person at a party.
If you’re sure this type of man is right up your alley, then you better bring you’re A-game. Here are some tips to help you out.
1. Let your beautiful smile shine
The first thing to know is that Gemini men aren’t hard to please. Just flash them that sweet, genuine smile, and they’ll be making their way to you soon. A great smile also indicates that you’re having a good time yourself, which is always an attractive quality.
2. Keep the conversation flowing
So let’s say you managed to get him to come to you with that awesome smile. Now what? The short, albeit unexpected, answer is to be yourself! If you’re just as naturally curious and outgoing as he is, then this should be no problem. However, don’t worry if you’re a bit more on the reserved side. Instead of having a list of topics prepared, it’s much better to improve your listening skills. The better you listen, the more invested you can become in the conversation, and it will just flow.
3. Show him your wide range of interests…
The Gemini man enjoys jumping from one thing to another. One way to guarantee that you have and keep his interest is by being comfortable talking about a wide range of topics. Whether it’s the most recent elections or your favorite classic book, don’t expect a Gemini to shy away from discussing anything. As long as you can reel him in with what you’re talking about, then you don’t have to worry about him drifting off.
4. …but don’t make it all about you
Since Gemini men are naturally curious, they may tend to ask you more questions. Although this alright with them initially, this could eventually make them feel like you’re not making an effort to maintain a good conversation. To avoid this, make sure to ask him questions as well. Show interest in him!
5. Give him enough space – but not for too long
One of the best ways to guarantee that you will never go on a date with your Gemini crush is to be too clingy too soon. As an air sign, no Gemini enjoys being tied down, especially if it’s with someone they just met. Try not to check in on them too often if you can help it; if he likes you, he’ll text first.
6. Make it clear that you’re interested
The good news is that Gemini men aren’t the type to feel emasculated when a girl makes the first move; on the contrary, they can find this incredibly sexy. They are attracted to women who are not afraid to be straightforward and go for what they want since these are traits that they also find quite admirable in themselves.
Of course, there’s nothing wrong with giving yourself a bit of an edge when you’re looking to secure a new boo. However, do keep in mind that no matter what other articles may tell you, you should never change who you are just for some guy. The right one will find you and like you for who you are. Now, staying true to yourself – definitely a trait that any Gemini man would find admirable.